My cleaner is threatening to tell my wife I’ve been having sex with my ex

DEAR DEIDRE: MY cleaning lady caught me having sex with my ex and now she’s blackmailing me, threatening to spill the beans to my wife.

I’m 30 and my wife is 32. She had to go away for three weeks to help her mother after she broke her hip. I bumped into an ex in my local. She’s 29 and I’ve never stopped thinking about her.

As the drink flowed, so did the sexual banter. She came back to my place and said: “How about a kiss for old time’s sake?” We ended up having sex but, just as we were going in for round two, our cleaning lady appeared.

She said to me the next day, “Your secret’s safe with me. Pay me £300 for the next six weeks and I say nothing.”

The six weeks are up but she’s still demanding more money or she’ll tell my wife.


DEIDRE SAYS: Blackmail is against the law. Tell your cleaner that she’s had the last payment from you, and that you will report her to the police if she tells your wife what happened.

After all, you’ll have nothing to lose at that point.

If the worst comes to the worst, my e-leaflet Cheating – Can You Get Over It? will help but please do learn from this it’s best not cheat.


Credits: The Sun

Deidre Sanders

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